It's over.

Monday, March 13, 2006, 9:35 PM

when i'm in school, i got quite a number of very close female friends. most of them are tackling with relationships. till one day they started to ask me about relationship which i never wanted to touch on it. they asked me for a guy, choose between your best friends and your girlfriend. for example both sides wanted to meet me to go out for something which is not important. my answer will be it depends. depends on what? it depends that if i had already gone out with my girlfriend for the past few days, i will choose to go out with my buddies. actually they are equally important. and this is a problem which most girls can't stand it. most girls would want their boyfriend to put her in priority then any other things. being together and close enough with them, i know too much about what girls really wants. but girls listen up! a good boyfriend does not make him good towards his best friends. freedom and understanding must be giver to your boyfriend.

another questions they post to me. how many days will you get to meet your girlfriend in a week. my answer is, if i can make it i will want to have dinner with her everyday. i will not ask her to orchard every week. it's nonsense. just plain dinner is enough. if she needs to shop but she can't find any other companion, i'll be there. many girls are complaining that their boyfriend does not spend enough time with them. but think back girls. calculate every little time that he spent when he is with you and tally them up. you will notice that you are asking too much. every dinner counts, travelling time counts, the number of time you all said goodbye in a week counts too. it's the time when you have to tresure that little bit of time being spent and stop complaining.

one last question asked. do you like it when your girlfriend keep buying you presents? absolutely no. once in a while as a surprise is good enough. if you girls keep on buying stuffs, the guys will feel very very guilty that the things he buy for you is lesser or cheaper than the things you bought for him. the face of the guy is very important. i mean they si yao mian zhi. understand? so don't buy expensive stuffs. don't ever blame them for getting angry when they receive your stuffs. they are just guilty. is natural.

it's getting late. tomorrow need to wake up early again. today's work was ok. nothing much had happen. ya the boxes had finally arrived. busy day tomorrow. seeya peeps.